32 Things I learned by almost 32.

Enkhbolor Gantulga
3 min readDec 31, 2018

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Surprisingly, beginning is very different from the one I wrote in 30 article.

  1. Learn to love yourself. Without excuses, unconditionally and full-heartedly.
  2. Health isn’t only your body. It includes your mind and spirit. It is a system of those 3 combined.
  3. Be conscious. Take a deep breath. Repeat. Slow down. Another deep breath. Look around.
  4. Love is the most important feeling that one can ever feel, experience and remember. (Well, there are plenty of the types of love though)
  5. Be Kind. To others, and most importantly to yourself.

6. Be thankful for what you have. People, things, work.

7. Keep your aspirations high. Like Oko likes to say “Your goals are limited only by your dreams”

8. Be curious. Constantly learn. Humanity still haven’t fully completed learning of our own bodies, not to tell everything that surrounds us.

9. Listen!!! F.cking listen! If you don’t get why … Ask further questions. ‘What? How? Why?’

10. Read! Original content. Money spent on one good book worth it! For sure!

11. Marry when you are ready to accept your partner as they are with all the weirdness, weaknesses and attitudes. Cause people never change.

12. Always care… whatever you do, whomever you work with.

13. Always make time for people who touch your heart and nourish your soul.

14. Surround yourself with people who make you hungry for life.

15. Empathy. Before making any conclusions try to put yourself in their shoes.

16. Never judge anyone. Everyone lives their own story, and you have almost no idea what they are going through.

17. You worth it… just because it is you. You are perfect in your own imperfections.

18. You don’t owe anyone anything.

19. Say Thank you and give credit to those who have done their work.

20. Say sorry from the bottom of your heart.

21. Make connections and true friendships… when you want someone be happy you’ll always find a way to do so.

22. What you give is what you get… Help others as much as you can.

23. Learn to cook but earn to indulge yourself with good food.

24. Try to disconnect more OFTEN. Life is around us not on the phone screen.

25. Ending relationship when the feelings are still there is something you need to experience to find out more about yourself.

26. Be strong enough to say NO.

27. Find your dream. Have a dream. Own your dream.

28. Simplicity is best luxury … appreciate and enjoy every small thing that happens in your life (smell of morning coffee, smile of you loved one)

29. Time is the most precious thing that you can give to anyone.

30. TRAVEL, TRAVEL, TRAVEL!

31. Raise your child with compassion to anything and everything. You can’t do it unless you showcase it.

32. And same as in the 30 article — At the death table no one will judge or say anything negative about you…. So live your life and no one else’s!

With Love,

Enkhbolor

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Enkhbolor Gantulga

Novelty seeker. Design thinking addict. Lifelong learner. Innovation junkie. Mindset adjunct.